Living with low self-esteem is like a constant whirlwind of overthinking. It’s like going through life with a hand brake on as all the signals on the dashboard blink red. While you might think that that’s just who you are—a shy person that lacks confidence, it’s important to know that there are things you can do and practice in order to boost your self-esteem and finally embrace life with both arms.

Put yourself first

Put yourself first

While your parents probably thought you that being a good person involves being selfless, but that won’t help you build your self-esteem. If you want to be a confident person, you need to learn to put yourself first. Of course, that doesn’t involve hurting other people just to get things your way. You can take care of yourself without putting anyone else in danger or hurting their feelings. Once you make yourself happy, you’ll be ready to give care, love and happiness to other people. Happy people are natural givers.

Fake it till you make it

Your brain is a curious thing and very susceptible to various influences. So, if you fake confidence, you will just start believing that that’s who you really are—a bold person full of self-esteem. If you struggle with feeling like you can act confident, try dressing up like a pro and practicing firm handshakes and good posture. If you look and act the part, you will feel better about yourself and encourage others to take you more seriously.


Get a driver’s license

This tip might be unexpected, but having a driver’s license can give you not only extra freedom and independence, but also provide you with better job security and more career options which will do wonders for your self-asteem. If you’re not so comfortable with traffic, you can book your driving classes with one of the caring instructors from EZlicence and learn how to drive in a stress-free and pleasant environment. Plus, you can easily manage your driving lessons and even learn in your own car!

Get to know your motivation

Get to know your motivation

It’s time for some introspection. See what makes you feel upset and small and analyze which things motivate you and which make you feel passive. Your introspection will be exhausting, but so worth it. As you study your behaviors and motivation, you’ll start to see a pattern that will tell you where your negative emotions come from. This way, you can find the source of negativity in your life and eliminate it forever. This is one of the best ways to build confidence in a healthy and permanent way.

Practice affirmations

If you want to make lasting change in how you feel about yourself, make sure to improve your self-image. You can start your day with a few affirmations – positive and uplifting statements you will say to yourself. Say them out loud while looking yourself in the mirror for the best effect. Our brains tend to believe what we tell ourselves, so make sure to start saying affirmative massages and in time, you’ll start to notice more and more positive things about yourself.

Don’t accept undeserved criticism

The worst thing you can do for your confidence is taking criticism and accepting guilt for something you didn’t do.

Don’t accept undeserved criticism

It’s one thing to be responsible for your mistakes, but don’t let anyone make you feel guilty for following your dreams or take any criticism you didn’t deserve. You deserve respect, so put your foot down, make other people respect your boundaries, get rid of toxic people and prevent them from treating you like a doormat.

The key to confidence is knowing yourself, respecting yourself and treating yourself well. Make sure you have a healthy opinion of yourself and never put yourself on the backburner. If you do all these things, your reputation you have with your inner self will go thought the roof.

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Diana Smith

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